Sexual restriction is the founding stone of family, marriage, and society. Sexual activities outside married wedlock are condemned. People are supposed to get married before they indulged in sexual activities. They have to be the same sexual partner as long as they can tolerate each other (They have created a union and produce legitimate children). They have to be faithful to each other, so and so. This is too much for my generation.
A man needs sexual freedom to be free. It is good that the youth of our generation has begun to question arbitrary restrictions and making the claim of their freedom. Society tricks people by telling them that marriage is the only legitimate way and forcing them to get married, indirectly. And, a man once married is enslaved for the whole life.
Sexual restriction of the previous generation is redundant. Nobody is committed or faithful to a single person. People of my generation cannot be committed and they are ready to accept it. They have multiple affairs and there is nothing wrong with it. Why be committed to old rotten traditions of old times? People are doing something after marriage which they were doing before marriage. They are simply unaffected. Why people are getting married?
The sexual restriction was effective in earlier times because people did not have opportunities for sex outside wedlock, but now sexual restriction is almost disappeared. Promiscuity is a virtue of our times.
Marriage and family subsist on sexual restrictions. There is only one reason behind sexual restrictions and that is to maintain the establishment of marriage and family. Marriage is the foundation of the family. It shapes the nature and character of the family. Family shapes society as well as state and if the family collapses the whole establishment is doomed to be destroyed. As an anti-establishment, I am against marriage and family. These two are source/cause of all evil. I am in favour of sexual freedom for many reasons.
Sexual freedom has a close nexus with freedom of thought. Sexual restrictions are a very subtle mechanism of social control. Free thing is not possible without sexual freedom. Open societies have better space for intellectual activities.
Sex is one of the three basic biological needs- food, sleep, and sex. There should not be prohibitions on biological needs.
The contract of marriage is unjust and unfair. It demands too much from both parties that are almost self-denial. Both of the parties are overburdened with incalculable duties and obligations. Their whole life is going to be finished in the discharge of this single contract. What else people do in their whole life?
Marriage brings a big burden of maintenance on the husband. People say that it is a big responsibility, not a burden. But, all of us know, what the case is. (Actually, it is really tough a single man to survive). How can anybody take responsibility for others? I maintain myself hardly, how can I think of anybody else? Any wise man will try to avoid any kind of responsibility.
It is strange; how people first create liabilities, then work in any office or factory to discharge them. I do not have any liability to maintain any person, neither I want to have. (My parents have enough money because they maintaining at the age of 26 and I am not going to get married or produce children). I am free and do not want to compromise with my freedom. I want to live as a freeman and married men are never free. They surrender their freedom before their wives, children, and family.
Freedom is not possible within a family. I have serious objections against its unjust structure. I do not think that just the family is possible. Sexual freedom can make it redundant. Sexual freedom is anti-establishment by its nature.
Sexual restrictions are unjust, unfair and unreasonable. They are imposed on us, just to maintain the unjust and arbitrary establishment of marriage and family. It is an unjust restriction to support unjust structure because no unjust structure can be maintained without unjust restrictions.
Sexual restrictions are against human freedom. They indirectly coerce, people to get married to satisfy their sexual needs. Marriage is an unjust price to satisfy the sexual urge. It enslaves them for their whole life. Nobody should be forced to compromise with his freedom to satisfy basic needs.
My generation is not ready to accept sexual restrictions. Neither they will not accept restrictions nor get married. They are reasserting their freedom against unjust, unfair, arbitrary and unreasonable restrictions. Change has begun.
